*SCREAM*

So yesterday I logged on to our bank account to see that my fiance has made SIX purchases in the last two days, each of them less than $2. He usually makes these while he's at work (a gas station) and that's fine except for the fact that he failed to make sure we actually had MONEY to cover the charges.

Each charge cleared today and overdrew our account, which then causes the bank to charge us $35 for every. single. purchase! OMFG! That's over $200 in charges for small stupid shit he shouldn't have even bought!

Right now he's sleeping so he doesn't know this yet, but I seriously want to beat the crap out of him for this. How the hell are we supposed to be saving money for Olivia (our daughter, due 10/22) or for our wedding when he can't even keep track of the most minute details our financial lives?!

I feel soooo close to taking his card away and just giving him an "allowance", but I know that' s going a little too far. What do you think?

I'm soooo upset, even my boss could tell when I went to pick up my paycheck today. I deposited that in the bank right away, but even with that we're still negative over $100! Thank goodness he gets paid again in a few days!